Archive for November, 2011
Options for Sydney Swingers
There is an increasing interest in Australia and particularly in the capital Sydney about the benefits of the extra marital relationships or swinging. There are a lot of reasons for this but one of them is the understanding that within long term relationships that are healthy and trustful, it is not only isn’t necessary to insist on traditional monogamy but it is actually highly beneficial to the relationship if multiple sexual partners are encouraged.
For a start, the extremely high divorce rate in Australia is largely due to the fact that many marriages fail after affairs. Most of these affairs are primarily just a sex based exchange and have nothing to do with love or the other emotional elements we all need as human beings. So why then, if it is clear that so many people cannot naturally adjust to the monogamy that is demanded in so many relationships, do we not embrace the fundamental desire to have multiple partners? Well the answer is that for an increasing number of people, this is a reality and one that brings a closeness and richness to couples that even they find surprising.
Most couples engaged in swinging report that they are not only able to explore their desires of having sex with other partners, but in so doing they experience a tremendous sense of closeness with their own partners. My partner and I are Sydney swingers and we use a wonderful swingers club that is more like an erotic dance club than a sex club which is the perfect option for us.
We love the way we can simply visit this place in a similar way to any other night club and just have a great night out without ever feeling pressurized to have sex with anyone. The whole idea of the club is to remove the sex from swinging and there are no playrooms or special equipment, its just an erotic dance club. The good thing about it however, is the fact that virtually all the other people there are active swinger couples so there if there are people you feel attracted to, you can simply approach them with the idea of starting a sexual relationship with them and never feel that you would offend or upset them as would be the case in a normal, non swingers club.
Swinging for us has been and will continue to be a fantastic adventure and we firmly advise anyone considering taking those first steps into the swinging lifestyle to give it a try, most people that do enjoy it – good luck!